Supporting girls' self-confidence is important

It is especially important to do so in an age-appropriate manner.

With that said, if a woman of any age expresses discomfort with your manner of doing business, it behooves you to demonstrate your capability to adapt and refine your comportment to address the situation.

Appreciation in this regards is not to be expected without first meeting certain standards. It is also not a benchmark that one should feel appropriate to use in an effort to evaluate how successfully a woman can silence her discomfort or "hide" it from you so as to placate any other needs.